Steve Tyler “Sings” the National Anthem

So here’s Yahoo! Sports’ take on the day’s event: click here.

Rudeness!

Steve Tyler sang in his classic, rock-n-rolling bad-a$$ Aerosmith-frontman fashion.  So?  And he supposedly messed up the lyrics.  Really?  After Christina Aguilera & Lauren Alaina’s blonde-dye-job mental blocks and sqwaking of wrong lyrics, you want to throw a legend like Steve Tyler under that bus? For what?  Saying “as bombs” instead of “the bombs”? I liked the change, personally.  I may sing it that way from now on!

Now, let’s pick the man a part for something that counts…like leaving his faithful wife of 17 years for a woman my age!  Or always cancelling Aerosmith’s shows right before their scheduled tour date here in Virginia Beach!  Or maybe singing the National Anthem, but changing the last line to fit the Indy 500 Race in 2001?  (He said “with bombs” that time.  He really hates the article “the”!)

Cinderella Couldn’t Keep Up With More Than One

…shoe, that is.

Recently I used the internet to track down two different types of shoes my little heart desired.  I have been longing for the perfect red ballet flat for over a year now.  I saw a pair on a model in a fashion magazine in the late fall of 2010, but they were listed as being somewhere in the range of $300.  For a ballet flat.  A ballet flat that if the manufacturers that work with Payless Shoe Source could get their acts together, would retail for $19.99–tops!  Nonetheless, the image of wearing rolled up dark denim with a soft cotton, long-john style red jersey and my hair in a high pony tail as I lightly jog on the balls of my feet from one al fresco bistro to the next was engrained in my mind.

JCrew put out a pair at the start of 2011, retailing at $125.  You can click on their name to see the sad ballet prototype they feel wins the heart of every wanna-be Parisian mademoiselle.  No, no, no, no!  This does NOT qualify as a ballet flat!  Even in Paris, they are hard to come by!  The famous company that actually makes authentic ballet dance & pointe shoes, as well as modern fashion collections for women, Repetto, has a gorgeous one, yet the bow is string, not leather.  If you click on the store’s name to see it for yourself and you’re wondering “How much is 170€  in U.S. dollars?”  the answer is roughly $220.  Yeah, never going to happen.

I searched high, I searched low…until I came across an American shoe website that had it!  Endless.com:

It was everything I wanted!  A black sole with a teeny-tiny square heel, a bow that matches the shoe’s leather material, a patent-leather look without being too shiny, a vamp that doesn’t cover too much or too little of the top of the foot, and most of all the color: red.  TRUE red.  Not “poppy”, or “burnt orange”, or “maroon”…Red.  Yes, they were a little expensive still ($113.95).  I’ve never spent above $80 for a pair of shoes in my life.  I had purchased tap shoes as high as $60 before, and running shoes as high as $70, but those were necessities that last for years, if treated properly.  But for daily wear, trends, and fashion?  I’m cheap!  Anything above $30 is a waste in my mind.  As a matter of fact, I purchased a pair of snake-skin high-heeled boots for a country music performance in Texas at Dillards…at 70% off…for $80 ten years ago.  And although I knew they were a quality shoe that I’d have for years, and I wouldn’t find a better shoe for the outfit I had planned for my show, I choked with guilt handing over that amount to the shoe clerk!  But after the year-long search I had been on for red ballet flats, I realized this style is too hard to come by.  They will be a staple in my closet until I’m 50 years old at least, so why not splurge on such a rare item?  I received my order just TWO DAYS after placing it.  So, imagine my disappointment when I slipped the sweet little apples on and realized despite the 7.5 size fitting like a glove, my feet were two wide to pull this particular look off.  I walked around in my house for two hours with them on, trying to convince myself they would work!  But every time I looked down, all I saw were my pudgy feet stretching this beautiful red Ferrari pair into boxy Hummers.  Flashes of always losing my balance in ballet class made me realize perhaps my lack of delicate dance skill wasn’t my fault.  It’s simply biology.  My feet are best for…I don’t know…squashing grapes at a vineyard in Italy.

The return process was just as easy as the ordering.  Just dump the box at your local UPS store, and within TWO days again, my credit card showed the full credit refund.    Endless.com says what they mean and they mean what they say!  What a huge change of pace…a company hellbent on perfecting customer service!  I didn’t realize such companies still existed.  I will turn to them before any department store or other online shopping portals for my future shoe needs.

Sadly, due to reality, my search for the perfect red ballet flat ended last week, as I realized my Hummer feet would do best in red patent-leather penny loafers instead.  So I’ll look good pretending to run errands around Cape Cod instead of Paris.  Target = $24.99.

In the meantime, I had another strange shoe order to fill:  pink sequined heels…preferably peek-a-boo.  I might have stubby feet, but I think I have cute toes.  I had purchased a pink sequined dress for an event and realized although I could go with the standard gold or silver glittered or rhinestone pump, I figured matching heels would make my ensemble that much more unique.  So I immediately found what I wanted on another website I had never used before: JenLinn.com.  Unfortunately, this experience wasn’t as hot as the shoes I found.  I paid for overnight express shipping.  They claim it takes 1-3 days to process an order.  I needed the shoes in five days.  So, logically, I was giving them an extra day to spare.  With my luck, I’ve learned to always give an extra day for any crisis to arise, because one undoubtedly will.  I did not receive an emailed receipt of the transaction.  However, my credit card was immediately charged for the full price the day I placed my order.  I waited, and waited, and by day 4 (and theoretically the day I should be receiving them in the mail) the status of “order pending” in my “account” on their website had not changed.  On day 5, the status had changed to “awaiting shipment”.  Big, giant, fail.  Gold, glittered heels found locally it is!

So, I tried to contact their “Live Help Desk”.  They (allegedly) use Google Talk 24-7, but this is the screen it takes you to: Jenlinn Staff is not currently available to chat.  I’m thinking Jenlinn Staff is never available to chat!  So I tried looking up a phone number to call to cancel my order.  No phone number listed anywhere.  So, I used their “contact us” page to send them a direct message asking for them to cancel my order altogether and to give me a complete refund as they did not hold up their side of the order-processing/shipping agreement.  It states that someone will contact you within 4-24 hours of receipt of the message.  2 days later, I checked, and nothing had changed.  No refund, no cancellation, and no reply to my message.  I tried again, thinking maybe the first time didn’t go through.  A couple of days later, still nothing.  So, I tried sending them an email to the only email they have listed: support@jenlinn.com. At least this way I’d have a copy of my message in my own sent file.   I, again, stated that I wanted my order cancelled and a full refund.  Still no response to my email, and no change to my “order status” or credit card statement.  Fed up, I decided today to do a little research on the company.

Although I couldn’t find any complaints against the company, I also couldn’t find any further legitimate information about the company either.  No phone number, even locally, is listed for them.  Their address (the only one listed on the website which is their “Returns” address) is a residential home in the heart of Rowland Heights outside of L.A.  A family of “Linns” seems to live there, but none of them have a personal phone number listed either.  So, what else can a pop culture menace do, but file them as a new and suspicious company with the Better Business Bureau?  I think three attempts to contact them, and twelve days after my package should have arrived is more than ample time for a legitimate company to acknowledge a customer they have already charged, right?

Not even a full three hours after filing their information with the Better Business Bureau in California, I received an email from them.  It simply states:

An order you recently placed on our website has had its status changed.  The status is now Cancelled.

That’s it.  No acknowledgement that I had sent them emails…no mention of when I should receive my refund.  Just, yo, you’ve been cancelled.

Hmph.

So, beware of Jenlinn.com!  Do NOT be seduced by their amazing variety of shoes!  I wish I had a fairy godmother to grant me my bipedal apparel…and to zap bad companies in the head!

Tags: endless.com, Jenlinn.com, red ballet flats

Will the real Lana Del Rey please stand up, please stand up…

“A gangsta  Nancy Sinatra”.

No, I’m not talking about Amy Winehouse.  That’s what Lana Del Rey’s publicists have labeled her in their world-wide attempt to make her a star, before her first album is released on January 30th.

Oh the irony that no one checked with Lana Del Rey to see if she even likes Nancy Sinatra before letting her talk to the media, let alone counts Nancy as one of her influences (aka: Who is Nancy Sinatra and name 2 songs she did, quick!).  Turns out, she doesn’t. Maybe it’s because they asked her opinion while she still had her Clark Kent glasses on (her real name is Elizabeth Grant, her real face…who knows?).

I’m also confused as to when the “make-over” took place.  Was it sitting in her mansion in NY developing her street-cred story of trailer park life in NJ, or was it in the trailer park in NJ dreaming of a better life in a mansion in NY?  This approach worked so well for Milli Vanilli, and Vanilla-Ice, and so many others who were washed out after their debut album’s flash-in-the-pan success. Pretending to be someone you’re not always works out. Always!  The American public is too stupid to sniff out posers! Actually, I’ll stop with the satirical comments, because I’m already losing that musical-snob argument.  America has yet to sniff out Lady Gaga. I still don’t get that one.  Lana’s 25.  Guess who she named as one of her musical influences?  The same person Lady Gaga did…Brittney Spears.  Kill. me. now.

Lana Del Rey has a massive team of publicists and managers pushing her name everywhere.  I know I’ve heard the name several times in the past few months, but figured she was an up and coming R&B (or some other genre) star that I’ve missed because I don’t dive in those musical pools regularly.  Turns out, she, (she being “Lana” now) only appeared live on a few shows both here and abroad singing one of only two songs.  Her team of “pushers” managed to book her as the musical guest on SNL this past Saturday, and that rocked the entire blogosphere, as she was ripped to shreds by music lovers…and NBC newscaster Brian Williams…and apparently anyone with ears.  She was ripped for her performance, her stage presence, and most of all her being on the show in the first place when SNL has a long history of booking only the biggest and best acts of the day.

I watched the two clips from the show on Yahoo’s Music tonight, and let’s be real…plenty of acts have sounded worse than the performance she gave.  But I was disturbed to see someone who has yet to make a name for herself in the industry because of her talent or her musical accomplishments get booked for one of the Top 5 coveted musical career pinnacles in America.  So, I looked her up.  She tried to release an album a few years ago under her actual name, Lizzy Grant.  It didn’t really take.  So daddy made iTunes take it down, and she had the controversial make-over, thanks to more of daddy’s money being thrown around.  She’s the spawn of a millionaire, don’t ya know!  I’m kind of confused as to why she went to college for a degree in Political Science if daddy was planning on buying her way into the music industry all along?  The average rock-n-roller doesn’t usually hold a degree from a prestigious university in something that has nothing to do with his/her art.  Perhaps her internship at a political non-profit or major news bureau before graduation didn’t go so well, so daddy said, “How about you hang up your business heels honey and try to be a pop star…like Paris Hilton?”  Maybe the college degree story is also fake?  Then again, it’s not every day trailer park residents in NJ get to attend boarding high schools in Connecticut.

I’ve always dreamed about how much easier it would be to develop a fan base by working as an independent artist (thanks to a hefty bank roll) until you’re so popular you can no longer be ignored by the powers that be (like MC Hammer did) than to have to scrounge around working every joint you can for little or no pay until you have enough saved to go pander to major record labels through their usual channels of performing in showcases, only to agree to sign on for development deals before radio, or the public ever gets to hear you sing.  “If I won the lottery…” has certainly escaped my lips on more than one occasion.  So, I don’t fault this young lady at all for having the chance to receive model looks via under the knife, plus snub the very industry whose rules I actually hate!  But I’m extremely disappointed in NBC and SNL for lowering their talent standards to such a degree, legit musical entertainer by the industry’s standards or not.  There are American Idol rejects who could’ve made better use of those two songs than Lana did.  They just didn’t have a team of representatives stomping the path ahead down for them, thanks to daddy’s ATM card.  Hence, why they subjected themselves to the humiliating national contest in the first place.

As for Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, and even Lady Gaga, I don’t think they have anything to lose sleep over, yet.  I didn’t hear anything that a real artist like Tori Amos hasn’t already done…better.

Pistol-Packin’ Momma

“Nothing more dangerous than a mother with her child.”   I’ve been saying so for years.

Man’s Best Friend in the Super Bowl 2012

My amazing director from Enron, Matt Friedman, and his brother, Jonathan submitted a commercial for Dorito’s Super Bowl Challenge…and they MUST WIN!

 

Watch all TOP 5 finalists here & then vote.  For every 100,000 votes that occurs, someone will win $10,000, so vote daily!

Would You Step In?

B.J. Wellbrock was my 2nd cousin. I never got to grow up around him or his sister Jamie. I can’t even remember meeting them. If we did, I was an older adolescent and probably too self-involved to notice little kids. But I remember the first time I met their mom, Vicki. I was just a wee little girl (4 years old to be exact) and she was a gorgeous, vibrant sixteen year old…the baby of my Mom’s cousin-clan. She was not too self-involved to pay attention to me.  People always worry about Barbie dolls’ image putting too high expectations on young girls for who and what they want to grow up to be. That was never the problem for me. In every sect of both sides of my family there was always a young beauty, and she was always a soft heart, down-to-earth, full of fire, and possessed a wicked sense of humor. Vicki was one of them, and definitely someone this four-year old hoped she’d be like once she turned Sweet 16.

Although life would cause us not to be around each other again until I was a preteen, and then later an adult (keeping me from ever knowing her own children) it’s obvious her beautiful spirit, charm, and humor were passed directly into her first-born son. And that full of fire, soft heart stepped in to help a total stranger New Year’s Eve. Now, many more people besides me have learned about what type of man B.J. grew up to be, and wish they too had been given the chance to know him and call him their friend also.

My heart is broken for his momma, my beautiful cousin Vicki, as well as her entire family, for having such an epic man robbed from them before 2012 had a chance to begin.

Please click here for the full story on what a coward is, and who a hero is, and click here for my other cousin’s testimony about B.J.’s life.

Memorials:
Parents of Murdered Children
1871 W. Sim Park Dr.
Wichita, KS 67203

Tears for Fears

New Year’s Resolution #2: Get back into my daily devotions…DAILY!

Today’s entry from Joyce Meyer’s Starting Your Day Right was perfect.  It begins with the following verses:

Psalm 6: 6-8
⁶ I am weary with my groaning;
All night I make my bed swim;
I drench my couch with my tears.
⁷ My eye wastes away because of grief;
It grows old because of all my enemies.
⁸ Depart from me, all you workers of iniquity;
For the LORD has heard the voice of my weeping.

Joyce discusses how Satan is already batting against us before we even wake up in the morning to guarantee we’ll walk in hopelessness, faithlessness, and bitterness.  I don’t know why I kept forgetting to wear the whole armor of God before getting out of bed every day in 2011, but I did.  You’d think after a week’s worth of fiery darts one would pick up on the fact that they are under attack.  Not this stubborn, high-tolerance to pain, fool.

I’m sure many of you have made the same resolution to dive deeper into the Word of God this year.  Be encouraged that I am doing the same.

New Year 2012: Diet Time!

It’s a New Year!  Time for the crazy diet trends to commence, right?

I personally am going to go back to a gluten-free diet…”diet” as in a normal nutritional routine, not as in a two-week or 1 month thing.  In trying to find the best foods to eat that will help my hypothyroidism (yes, I’m back on that treadmill again), I came across two curious things: astrological diets & moon diets.  One suggests I should eat certain foods according to my astrological sign, another suggests if you do a trendy detox during a particular phase of the moon, you will shed more pounds than normal.

I also stumbled across some info that claimed magnesium deficiency is a root cause of insomnia.

Here’s a list of foods accordingly:

BEST FOODS FOR CAPRICORN

Lamb. Recommended fruits and vegetables: beet, cabbage, eggplant, melon, watermelon, quince. Spices and herbs: sweet pepper, basil, coriander, cumin, ginger, curry, garlic, mustard, pepper, mint, cardamom, licorice, sage, mint, vanilla. Capricorn must drink enough water between mineral nutrition.

BEST FOODS FOR MAGNESIUM BOOST

oats, soy beans, dry roasted almonds, cashews, spinach, baked potato with skin, black-eyed peas, yogurt, bananas, rice, avocado, kidney beans, chocolate milk (!), chocolate candy bars (!), raisins, apples, apricots, broccoli

FOODS TO AVOID IF YOU HAVE HYPOTHYROIDISM

broccoli, cauliflower, kale, spinach, radishes, soybeans, peanuts, pine nuts, peaches and millet

Now, my taste buds have to come into play here. Thanks, o mighty abominations to the Lord astrologers, but I can’t stand beets, cabbage (if I’m ever made a prisoner of war, the best torture for me truly would be cooking cabbage in front of me…there’s aroma therapy, and then there are aromas that provoke suicidal thoughts), eggplant (except eggplant parmigiana, but since I’m gluten-free now…), and quince.  Star-gazing-Fail!

Since the whole English-speaking world is waiting to find out what foods I will be eating in 2012, here you go…what is highlighted in purple above will be on my regular diet. I’m really going to miss broccoli (steamed or raw), spinach (raw only), soy beans (raw only), and peaches.  Actually, I may rethink this anti-thyroid hormone-producing food list.  It’s weird how the same foods that allegedly hurt my thyroid also happen to be the highest anti-oxidant veggies that ward off cancer.  I like being cancer-free up to now, ya know?!

Oh, the moon diet you ask?  It’s easy.  The afternoon before the next full moon (9 JAN 2012 @ 0730hrs), you begin drinking only freshly squeezed fruit juices, herbal teas, and water.  NO FOOD!  I believe honey is allowed as well.  It will allegedly flush out toxins and cause you to lose 6 lbs by the night of the full moon (apparently, you only lose 3 lbs on a regular day).  January 9th is a Monday.  Good luck to anyone who works/lives with you if you choose to try it!

Anyhow, Welcome 2012!

For Such A Time As This

I saw Yasmeen Suri‘s testimony (click here) on the 700 Club today.  She’s sweet and pretty…but also a BOLD sister in Christ!

Netflix Marathon Pushes This Struggling Mom Through

So, if your Christmas season was anything like mine, you were running a mile a minute, and everything related to home (decorating, shopping, gift-wrapping, cooking preparations, etc.) was left to the last-minute! I ended up forcing myself to go a full 24 hours without sleep just to catch up on everything before Christmas Eve came knocking on our door. The continuous adrenaline rush was easy with the help of Netflix.  Now, I had already watched my Top 10 favorite Christmas flicks throughout the month of December:

1) Scrooged
2) The Family Man
3) Fred Claus
4) Christmas Vacation
5) It’s A Wonderful Life
6) The Nativity Story
7) Home Alone
8) Serendipity
9) Elf
10) A Christmas Story

…no wonder I hadn’t gotten anything done…so there was nothing left for me to do but catch up on my queue list in my Netflix account.  For those of you who think I’m some type of Grinch for putting It’s A Wonderful Life at #5, you should know I think it’s the most brilliant movie ever made, and therefore is my number 1 movie of all time (tied with The Wizard of Oz, of course), so I think it can stand to sit behind a few Christmas-themed comedies here.

The Netflix I had received in the mail that day was Friends With Benefits.  When I originally saw the trailer for it, I thought A) what a pathetic copy-cat to No Strings Attached  B) if the characters aren’t total jerks (as is usually the case in real life) then we already know how it’s going to end, because there’s no such thing as friends with benefits–either a relationship will spark, or a friendship will end…there is no unemotional in between! &  C) well, I’m not telling you all that one.  However, someone recently referenced the film to me, and it got me curious, so I figured I’d give it a shot.  I have to admit, it was HIGH-LARRY-US!  100% better than No Strings…  It’s rated “R” for a reason, so *beware* if you’re sensitive.  I especially loved all the pop-culture references…as would any pop-culture-menace!

Next, I watched Limitless online.  I had hoped to see it while in theaters, but this single mom rarely gets a chance to see a film on the big screen that isn’t sponsored by Disney (and by “rarely”, I mean NEVER), so, at least it got me through a lot of gift wrapping.  Loved the flick.  That’s what I want.  Not a drug that makes me emotionally or mentally vacant, but one that will let me learn Italian in 4 days!

After that intellectually stimulating, and rather gory-near-the-end film, I decided I needed to charge up my emotions with Rabbit Hole.  It was intense, and certainly showed the complexity of spiritually and physically grappling with probably the worst tragedy anyone can ever face: a parent losing a child.  I liked it.

I needed a comedy after that one, so I clicked on You Again.  A comedy, I did not get.  Sooooo disappointing.

Then I tried A Little Help.

Yikes!  The only thing worse than watching this awkward, dysfunctional family was watching pieces of me in Jenna Fischer’s lead role, who was a most unflattering character.  The only plus in this film was all the Jersey Boy references to  Dion DiMucci, & an amazing appearance/performance by him.  Along with singing the National Anthem at the Super Bowl (and actually knowing all the words), one of my biggest career dreams is getting to perform a duet with him just once, in any capacity!  He’s one of my faves, and a sincere brother in Christ.

It was only 6am at this point, with so much left to do, and my queue was full of new movies that don’t come as an “Instantly Watch” yet, so I turned to an oldie, but a goodie:  Heartburn.  Where it all started…Nora Ephron’s biopic about her and ex-husband Carl Bernstein’s rise-and-fall marriage.  If Carl hadn’t been such a wanker and emotionally damaged Nora so, we would have never gotten When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless In Seattle, or You’ve Got Mail.  That’s right men, as with all things in life, you can blame chick-flicks on a guy!  And he’s a Democrat, so there.  I guess they’re useful to some extent after all.

I survived another successful Christmas, and it’s all thanks to my all-night movie viewing.

A gift bestowed upon my household for Christmas was a DVD….Colin Quinn’s Long Story Short.  It will leave you rolling non-stop (despite there not being a parental warning sticker on the case, this video is NOT for children!).  He managed to get almost halfway through the show before taking the Lord’s name in vain too.  So close, and yet so far away.  But that was still a major improvement for anyone who’s familiar with Colin’s stand-up…or casual conversation, really.  This one-man show (directed by Jerry Seinfeld) runs in New York until January 8th 2012, and then he’s taking it on the road (not near here, of course).  If only I could go see him in person for my birthday…
I wasn’t going to celebrate my birthday this year anyways.

Christmas Today

Here’s one version of what happened back then…

 

And here’s a version of what would happen if the Messiah were born today…

 

Have I mentioned how much I hate Facebook?  I have.  You’re not paying attention.  I’m so over this.

Holy Communion–Take It And Be Healed!

When I was at the height of my insomnia problem, due to hypothyroidism back in 2008, I began watching this new teaching program that would come on at 4:30am…just a 30 minute wait after my beloved RedEye!

This was the very first sermon I heard from this preacher based in Singapore.  I had a complete paradigm shift about these scriptures and the doctrinal misconceptions I too had been taught (in Baptist churches).  It was amazing!  I’ve been hooked with Joseph Prince’s interpretations of the Bible ever since.

I began taking communion in the privacy of my home with wine and unleavened bread for many weeks.  Looking back on it, I started to feel better!  I can’t remember why I stopped doing it…probably got busy and made excuses until my new habit had been completely erased from my daily routine.  I’ve relied on medications ever since.

Joseph Prince covers this teaching in his online devotional today (click here for his website) via Facebook (click here for his page).  I’m so glad he did.  It’s amazing how Satan moves in swiftly to distract us from God’s revelations!  It’s like being told the winning lottery numbers before the drawing, and then forgetting to buy a ticket!

Many of you may attend Christmas services this week where Communion will be offered.  If you are like I was every day up until three years ago, you might pass on taking it because you’ve been taught if there is any sin unconfessed in your life, you will be blaspheming against the Holy Spirit…and who needs that curse on them during the holidays?

I pray your life will be transformed in the way Jesus always intended us to be after viewing this sermon.

Pensacola Christian College Allows Social Media…baby and how!

I always wondered, with the massive increase and dependency of technology these past 15 years, how PCC was handling keeping a 100% isolated environment on campus.  In ancient times when I attended, TVs, radios, etc. were not allowed!  Nor was the use/viewing of them off campus (there were “spies” everywhere waiting to report back to our Gestapo….err…I mean our Dean of Women–whom I’d like to mention was a tad bit overly obsessed with staring at my legs all the time to guarantee my knees weren’t showing.  Sure, that was her reason!).  In this day and age of cell phones, social media, video cameras, mp3 players, and WiFi, how is this money-grubbing college convincing young foals to subject themselves to their campus which  alienates them from all modern society, all for the glory of God?

Turns out, they aren’t!  They apparently do allow camcorders of some type (iPhones maybe?), and the use of YouTube.  We get a sneak peek into the walls of this fine institution today, which prides itself on churning out fine young men to become our future pastors and missionaries.  I see the dorm rooms, with their mandatory blank walls & 3-inch thick mattress bunk-beds, are still the same.

Wouldn’t you feel emotionally, mentally, and spiritually safe coming to one of these gentlemen in your church with a serious family crisis or personal matter for counseling?…

 

….me neither.  Baptists. *snort*

The TRUTH About Victory Christian School

After remaining silent for 1 month…

If anyone in this town looks this school up for reviews (as they have made sure every online review site is rigged with only positive reviews and comments…I know this because there are too many disgruntled parents in this town for them to have a perfect record & I posted a negative review number on one site, and within 5 hours of posting, it was removed), or me personally out of curiosity over recent rumors that have been spread in our small community, I’d like the TRUTH to be known:

A)  My son did NOTHING to be dismissed from Victory Christian School.  Whatever the excuse is you’ve heard, it’s a lie.

B)  I did NOTHING to cause my son to be dismissed from Victory Christian School.  Whatever Mr. Eason dared to convince the faculty of VCS, or preached against me from the pulpit of Victory Baptist Church is a lie.

C) I was ambushed in the parking lot on November 3rd, 2011 by an angry, self-righteous school administrator who was upset that I pointed out he wasn’t doing his job very well in a short, hand-written note I sent with my son to school that day.  It seems my choice in using the term “legalism” was his only issue.  Instead of owning up to his mistake, or trying to discuss the circumstance to resolve the concerns of this Godly, loving, respectful mother, he chose to meet me by my car side as I picked my son up from school and announced my son was dismissed from school as of that moment, with the threat to never return to the school grounds, promising “no one will talk to you.”

D) I still haven’t heard confirmation from the school’s President, Reverend Reggie Parker, that my son has been officially dismissed!  No formal letter, nothing.  Just Mr. Eason’s verbal threat for us not to return to campus…even for my son’s school records…I’m supposed to CALL for them.

E)  Despite his shocking, rude, and hostile tone with me, (which caused my son to cry because he couldn’t believe this man–who apparently acts this way with students all of the time in private–was able to treat his mother that way) I was never rude or hostile with him.  Righteously indignant after I had enough of his multiple lies, as he kept changing the reason for my son’s dismissal throughout his ill-tempered speech, yes–but not hostile or rude, and certainly never fought him, or raised my voice to him, or cursed him out, as many rumors that have gotten back to both my son and me suggest!

F) My son was absent from school on November 4th, not because I took Mr. Eason’s threat seriously and accepted my son being dismissed…it was because he had a doctor’s appointment in Norfolk , and I had given the school a week’s advanced notice that he would be missing school that day.  Although I believe this inexperienced, under-qualified administrator who has NO BUSINESS counseling, or teaching young adults in this or any other school at this time in his immature life, overreacted emotionally to my letter, I don’t believe he premeditated dismissing my son to coincide with his doctor’s appointment.  I do believe once he realized his brash, unprofessional behavior with me the afternoon before may come back to haunt him, he took absolute advantage of my son not being in school that Friday and lied to the 7th-8th grade class about why my son was absent.  I have the excuse note from his Doctor’s visit to prove it.

G) I have not returned to the campus due to the legal instructions I’ve received since.  Because this “man” was bold enough to do what he’s done so far, there’s no telling what he might choose to orchestrate next against my son or me, so I have been instructed to deal directly with the Reverend only.  The Reverend has not responded to my registered letter I sent him requesting a meeting to settle this un-Christlike situation once and for all.  He also was not the person who signed for my letter.  Either it was passed on to him and now he is choosing to join his second-in-command’s unprofessional and unGodly behavior, or a staff member might be going to prison for tampering with his mail soon.

H) I have not spread any rumors to anyone about this situation!  I want this matter resolved as Jesus would want it resolved.  I also want what’s best for my son, as well as other children.  However, the toughest part about what my son and I endured in the parking lot that day has been what’s happened since: the non-stop stories we’ve received from other parents, students, and church members (some of them strangers!) in which this man has continued to bad-mouth us in public, encouraged students to gossip behind my son’s back, and has successfully painted me as some unsubmissive, vulgar monster so as to discredit every grievance I originally had with him and his job performance.

I) If my short letter questioning his handling of one situation was enough for him to want to totally excommunicate a Christian family, then I would suggest this sect of Baptists is not a legitimate group worshiping and focusing on Christ alone, nor are they adhering to the basic requirements to running a private school in the state of North Carolina, but a cult that expects total domination, and holds “zero-tolerance” (not for breaking Christ’s laws) for questioning their leadership.

For more information on how to decipher between an authentic Christian denomination and a cult, click here.

I especially like these cult characteristics…they seem awfully familiar:

*Coercion – Perceived disobedience, including even a minor disagreement with group doctrine, may result in expulsion and shunning.

*Phobias – The idea is planted that anyone who leaves goes into a life of depravity and sin. Constant rumors of bad things happening to people who leave.  No one ever leaves for “legitimate reasons.”

J) This treatment is 100% against what VCS promises in their Handbook and what they advertise on their website:

“An oasis of friendship in a cold world: We refuse to allow bullying, and we teach students to appreciate others.”  –FALSE!

“We are different on Discipline:  a consistent, fair, and loving standard of discipline is maintained at the school.”  –FALSE!

“We are different in Staff:  The administration, each teacher, and each member of the staff has a personal interest in your child”  –FALSE!

K) The parental agreement we sign in order for our child(ren) to be enrolled in this school is NOT a waiver of our parental rights, as Mr. Eason seems to think.  We are paying tuition for Godly instruction and loving correction, just as their website insists to the outside world…not for a church authoritarian to break the minds and spirits of our children in order to have better control over them.  It’s also not a legal contract that allows them to take our money for the full year’s tuition while they make up reasons to no longer spend those funds on instructing our children.  That, my friends, is a con artist’s game (or a cult’s scam).

L) If this shockingly bizarre treatment could happen to us, it can happen to you.  If your child is in VCS’s elementary school, and your experience has been a great one (as our’s was too) be mindful of this man’s authoritative behavior, unfriendly demeanor, and his lecturing attitude during PTF meetings.  They are all warning signs…signs that I chose to ignore before my son entered the 7th grade, and Mr. Eason’s domain, this year.

Thank you.

Tags: Elizabeth City NC, Victory Baptist Church, Victory Christian School

Another Facial Regimen…

I promised to report my experiences with Neutrogena’s Natural facial scrub & Roc’s Retinol wrinkle cream.  The results?

Neutrogena worked for about four weeks, and then began to have a super harsh affect on my skin, causing serious break-outs again.  Roc’s wrinkle cream?  I used it on my forehead.  The very last of the massive chemical-peeling effect and acne bumps from using it just cleared up completely around the middle of November.

Regular acne issues, back full-swing.

One of my closest friends has been sporting flawless, youthful, glowing skin lately with no need for make-up.  I asked her what she was doing, and she said she had a cleansing consult with the Lancome counter at our local Belk where they prescribed a special toner & wrinkle cream.  Darn.  I was hoping there was some new product on the market I hadn’t heard of.  She asked me why I wouldn’t consider going in with her to see the products and find the one that fits my type of skin?  I reminded her that toners are too brutal on my sensitive skin, and lotions, creams, and moisturizers are too oily and quadruple my break-outs.  She swore this stuff would work for me, as they have the same stuff she’s using, but for super oily skin users.

Black Friday, we sat outside of Belk hoping to get one of the 250 gift cards they were going to hand out at 3am…1 possessing a $1,000 on it.  We didn’t win, but I did get a wonderful consult.  I had to go home and think about it though, because, as we all know, Lancome isn’t cheap.  I decided between what the sales associate had shared with me, and how gorgeous my friends face is right now, it would be worth the trouble to try it just once.  After all, both products combined come to $50…the cost of my very first package from ProActiv forty-five hundred years ago.

Here’s what I’m trying now.  I use the cleanser & the toner (which is more like a deodorant for the face…its part liquid, part powder, and you have to shake it together rigorously before each use).  I’m still dealing with teeny break outs in random spots on my face and neck, but the condition of my overall skin is fabulous, glowing, and smooth, and my pores are shrinking.  I can tell the toner really helps keep the oil at bay for several hours during the day.

So here you go…try it for yourself…or put it on your Christmas list!